There is a pet party in the parking lot at Temple Emanu-El

Scenes from Pets in the Parking Lot at Temple Emanu-El in Providence.

I interviewed Sharon Sock, director of engagement at Temple Emanu-El in Providence, about the Pet Party in the Parking Lot program that she and her team created, now in its fourth year. 

How did Pets in the Parking Lot begin and what first inspired the idea?

The Pet Party in the Parking Lot program began with a desire to outreach to members of the community who are pet owners. We were inspired by the way pets naturally bring people together by sparking conversation, connection and joy. At the same time, we wanted to create a program that reflected Jewish values around caring for all living beings. Bringing those ideas together led to an event that feels both deeply communal and purpose driven.

What specific need in the congregation or neighborhood does the program address?

We work hard to provide programming and experiences for all members in our community. For many people, pets are cherished companions and an important source of connection and daily joy. The Pet Party in the Parking Lot creates space for that bond to be recognized and celebrated, while also addressing a growing awareness in our community about animal welfare. It gives people a tangible way to support causes like local animal shelters while building relationships with one another.

What does a Pet Party in the Parking Lot gathering look like – from when people arrive to when they leave?

As people arrive, there’s an immediate sense of warmth and informality. Dogs greet each other, people chat and there is a relaxed, welcoming energy. Participants mingle, meet new people and often share stories about their pets, including those who may not be able to attend, like cats or other animals at home. We offer homemade vegan dog treats and have a craft station where both kids and adults can make fun pet toys. After some time to connect, we gather as a group. Rabbi [Michael] Fel invites everyone to introduce themselves and their pets and then shares a brief teaching about the role animals play in Jewish tradition and our responsibility to care for them. The experience is both joyful and meaningful.

How do you connect this program to Jewish teachings or spiritual values about animals, creation and compassion?

Judaism teaches that we are stewards of the earth and all its creatures. The story of Noah’s Ark reminds us that our covenant extends beyond humanity to include animals and the natural world. Concepts like tza’ar ba’alei chayim, the prohibition against causing unnecessary suffering to animals, guide us toward compassion and responsibility. Rabbi Fel often shares passages from Perek Shira (“Chapter of Song”), an ancient text that teaches that every part of creation has its own voice and way of praising God. Pets in the Parking Lot brings these values to life in a tangible, accessible way, reminding us that caring for animals is a sacred act.

Who comes to these events, and how has the program helped you reach people who might not walk into the synagogue building?

We see a wide range of participants including families, individuals, longtime members and people who are new to our community. What’s especially meaningful is how many attendees might not otherwise engage with synagogue life but feel comfortable showing up for an outdoor, pet-centered event. The program resonates not only with those who bring dogs, but also with people who have other kinds of pets or simply feel a strong connection to animals. It creates a low-barrier, welcoming entry point where relationships can begin naturally and authentically.

Can you share a story about a moment at Pets in the Park that really stayed with you?

I especially love seeing grandparents come with their grandchildren. It is a wonderful way to connect across generations. There’s always lots of energy around the craft table, where kids gather to make toys for pets. Another highlight is the moment when people introduce their pets to the group; you can really see the pride and joy they feel sharing that part of their lives with others.

What are the challenges and how have you handled them?

Like any outdoor, pet-friendly event, there are logistical considerations –ensuring safety for both people and animals and being mindful of the weather. We’ve been very fortunate over the past three years with good weather and smooth events overall. Clear expectations and a shared sense of community responsibility have helped everything run well.

What’s your hope for the future of Pets in the Parking Lot?

Our hope is that the Pet Party in the Parking Lot continues to grow as a highlight of the fall calendar. We want it to remain a unique, welcoming and fun event that reflects our values of compassion and connection and continues to bring people together through a shared appreciation for the animals in their lives. Save the date, Sunday, Oct. 17 for the 2026 Pet Party in the Parking Lot at Temple Emanu-El!

PATRICIA RASKIN, owner of Raskin Resources Productions, is an award-winning radio producer, business owner and leader. She has served on the board of directors of Temple Emanu-El, in Providence. Her “Positive Living with Patricia Raskin” podcast can be heard on voiceamerica.com.